>>Me, I find polyamory much too messy in the Real World, though it does
>>make for happy fiction.
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>But, it's also fun in small doses, when you will never see the people
>again... That's not polyamory. That's just sleeping with lots of people. Polyamory, as I understand it, is the act of being romantically in love with more than one person at a given time, in a continuous, long-term sort of way.
I can handle sleeping with lots of different people as easily as anyone, though it's not something I choose to do. It's being in love with more than one person, or knowing that the person I love has feelings equally strong (maybe stronger! that's the real fear) for someone else, that really breaks *my* brain, and causes many angstroms of angst.
*hand-staple-forehead*
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>>I need to take my own advice.
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>-Pasha
>Umm, right....I'll be with you in just a sec now...