That was an...overWHELMING amount of utter shit that has dropped on you. Even consideing 2020. Agree entirely with previous speaker enough already. On the other hand, you have a DreamStation. I don't, nor do I have an Xstation of any numeral. Not that having one makes the rest of the list ok, but you know, jealousy. I want to play Crazy Taxi, dammit!
Back to somewhat seriousness again, I sincerely hope that things take an urgent and strong turn for the better. And, a thought for your grand...theres no way to make signs or something that will inform/remind him? I realize he'll forget soon again, but with a constant presence of that reminder, it might make him feel, on average, better? If that makes any sense.
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Stoke Mandeville, Esq & The Victorian Ballsmiths
"Nobody Want Verdigris-Covered Balls!"