>I'm not sure I have understood your question fully and/or responded to
>it fully,

It always seems to take me 2-3 tries to get the words I post to mean what I want them to mean, so let me see if this makes more sense: Is there a point where having the male character resist the charms of his female companions cross over into flaunting / "I can't hear you over how awesome I am!" territory?

"This is probably a stupid question, but . . ."