Rebuild 1 and 2 Misato: Shinji, you need to do what YOU think is right more.
Rebuild 3 Misato: Shinji you disgusting piece of shit, how DARE you do what you thought was right! If you even THINK of doing something we don't explcitly tell you to do and no more or less, I'll blw your fucking head off with the bomb collar!

And apparently nobody thought to tell Asuka that Shinji was *literally* not in control when her plug was crushed. It's only been more than a *decade*. They probably just didn't have the time.

(Rebuild 3 makes me so angry)